What do you want to be when you grow up? This is a question we all asked our children and a question that we were asked. I invite you to remember how you answered this question when your parents asked you this. We are told as young children we can do what ever we want to do but few of us ever do.
We get caught up in life, paying bills bringing up kids and other distractions. It is a dam shame. I hear many people saying I want to start a business but the problem is that most people’s idea of this is really to buy a job owning some shop or office. Yes you might be the boss but with that comes bills, payrolls and more hours than you would work if you were employed. We are told to get a great education but that leads to student loans for most of us that take 20-30 years to pay off. The vast majority of us simply get stuck in the rat race.
So what should we do? I hear many people say do what you love but this is fine if what you love also has a demand in the markets but the reality is if it is something you love to do many others also love to do it and the market is saturated. There is no good living to make in what you love to do or else you would be already doing it.
The reality is most of us sacrifice the majority of our time for a day or two to do what we want to do. The weekend yes!!! you tell yourself. No work until Monday.yes!!!! The truth is time is the real commodity that is most precious in life not money.
The problem is we need money to live. So what is the answer? I guess it is to think of a need of many people and fill that need so you make a boat load of money and then you don’t have to work anymore. Of course I cannot tell you what that is but there is a demand out there that will fulfill a need and can make you very wealthy. The real thing about money is not the security that it buys us but instead the time it frees up for us to be able to do what we really love.
Since most of us will never be super rich what can we do to enjoy the free time we have? I guess lifelong learning is the answer. Learn something different and see if you like it. Hobbies will keep your mind sharp and give you an outlet from the reality of life. It will also get you up from the couch wasting time watching some reality program. Try to fulfill your life with passions who knows maybe you might stumble on something that will make you money and free up your time.
I am not saying that life sucks I am just stating that the real thing you can’t buy or steal or otherwise collect is time so don’t waste it sitting around watching mindless things on TV. Read a book go to a museum try something different. Involve your family and friends and have some fun. This is the best way to escape from the rat race in your spare time. Open your mind and try something different!!!
Many of you are probably thinking what spare time however make a journal of the amount of time you sit at home and watch the TV. That is spare time where you could be following new interests. Too tired? You won’t be if you find something you become passionate about.
What do you want to be when you grow up? I say it is never to late to dream and when you do dream large and enjoy your journey to finding new passions everyday.
Claude Timothy